Ability and Disability
Children with disabilities represent one of the most diverse yet often overlooked minoritized communities. Disabilities can include physical, developmental, emotional, sensory, or learning differences, and each child’s experience is unique. Although society has taken steps toward greater inclusion, many disabled children still encounter significant barriers in education, accessibility, and daily life. Recognizing and understanding these challenges is essential for creating learning environments where all children can grow, succeed, and feel valued.
One of the most persistent challenges is unequal access to education. Even though schools are legally required to provide accommodations and support services, many classrooms remain far from fully inclusive. Some schools lack trained personnel, accessible materials, or assistive technologies that children rely on to participate meaningfully. According to the National Center for Education Statistics, “During the 2022–23 school year, 21% of schools reported at least one vacancy in special education, and 55% of schools reported it was difficult to fill special education teacher positions” (School Pulse Panel, 2024). These staffing shortages directly affect students’ ability to receive the services they need. In many cases, children with disabilities are placed in separate classrooms or special programs, limiting their interactions with peers. Research published in the Journal of Special Education found that students with disabilities perform better when they spend more time in mainstream classrooms, where they are exposed to more rigorous academic content (Stephens, 2024). Additionally, Cole et al. (2022) found that the inclusion of students with disabilities benefits all students by fostering respect, awareness, and prosocial skills. While specialized support is sometimes necessary, separating children can unintentionally reinforce the idea that they do not “belong” in general education settings, affecting their confidence, social development, and opportunities for friendships.
Representation is another major concern. Disabled children rarely see themselves portrayed positively in books, TV shows, classroom posters, or media. When disabilities do appear, they are often framed as something “tragic” or something a child must “overcome,” instead of being shown as a natural part of human diversity. Positive and realistic representation helps children feel seen, valued, and understood, and it reinforces that they have a rightful place in the world. Another barrier is ableism, the bias, unfair treatment, or discrimination directed toward people with disabilities. Ableism can be obvious, but it often shows up in subtle everyday interactions that many people do not recognize as harmful. For instance, adults or peers may assume a child with a disability cannot complete a task, even if the child has never been given the opportunity to try. Well-meaning people might step in too quickly or offer unnecessary help, sending the message that the child is less capable. Ableism also shows up in how people speak to disabled children, such as using overly simplified language or a baby-like tone, which implies the child is less mature or intelligent. Excluding children from activities “for their own safety,” rather than offering accommodations, is another common form. These experiences can negatively affect a child’s independence, self-esteem, and long-term mental health.
Ultimately, supporting children with disabilities requires more than basic compliance with accommodations, it requires actively challenging ableism, promoting truly inclusive spaces, and recognizing the strengths each child brings. When adults remove barriers and provide meaningful supports, children gain confidence and can fully participate in both school and community life. With the right tools, acceptance, and encouragement, children with disabilities can grow academically, socially, and emotionally in ways that highlight their abilities rather than their limitations. Promoting inclusion is not just the responsibility of schools but a community-wide effort grounded in equity and respect. When every child is given a place to belong, we show them that they are capable, valued, and deserving of equal opportunities. This approach helps build a future where all children, regardless of ability, are recognized as essential, empowered members of society.
References:
- Cole, S. M., Murphy, H. R., Frisby, M. B., & Robinson, J. (2022). The Relationship Between Special Education Placement and High School Outcomes. The Journal of Special Education, 57(1), 002246692210979. https://doi.org/10.1177/00224669221097945
- National Center for Education Statistics. (2024, August). School Pulse Panel - Interactive Results. Ed.gov. https://nces.ed.gov/surveys/spp/results.asp?utm_medium=email&utm_source=newsflash
- Stephens, C. P. (2024, April 15). Inside a School That Doesn’t Single Out Students With Special Needs. Education Week. https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/inside-a-school-that-doesnt-single-out-students-with-special-needs/2024/04?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Community Resources
Phone: 951-694-6480
Class Hotline through Temecula Community Service
The S.K.I.P. (Supporting Kids Involving Parents) Program, is an exciting "parent and me" program in Temecula that provides children with special needs opportunities for sensory enrichment, improvement of social skills, recreational play, and parent support.
Address: 41707 Winchester Rd STE 206, Temecula, CA 92590
Phone: (951) 296-2090
Toward Maximum Independence in Temecula is a nonprofit organization that offers individualized support services that help people with disabilities build skills, confidence, and greater independence in their daily lives.

Additional Resources
In this podcast episode by Tim Viegas, he features Kelley Coleman discussing what real inclusion looks like for students with disabilities, both at home and in school. She shares her experiences as a parent, breaking down the challenges of IEPs, special education systems, and everyday caregiving. Coleman emphasizes that collaboration between families and educators are wanting reducing stigma around disability, this is key to making inclusion meaningful rather than just symbolic.